A deep look at "As a Wife, Do Not Restrict Your Husband's Freedom" - Why Wives Oppose Their Husbands' Porsche Purchases
Published on: 09.27.2019
I dumped this story on my husband.
When I told him this, my husband had this to say.
Certainly trust is important. But there are some people, for example, CEOs who earn a substantial income and are successful in the eyes of the public, who are not allowed to do as they please. In such a family, either the wife's standards are too high and she has yet to meet them, or he is the type of husband who would grow more if he were given such restrictions.
depending on one's preferenceThere are some people who should be given free reign, and some who shouldn't.I guess. That's what the wife has to figure out, right?
And. Well... when I looked around, I did indeed see "being the bossThere are many men who are insanely successful in the "Mere Old Man". There are a lot of them in the entertainment industry.
However, it is quite difficult to tell which type my husband is. In my case, however, it may be because I grew up as the youngest of two siblings.A caring older sisterly spirit who can spank the other's butt."I'm always too busy with myself, so I don't think I'll ever be wooed by a man who likes women with anego skin.
Her husband continued.
By the way, in my case, I'm not a "The type that needs to be free.In the "I'm a free man," and I'm also motivated to try to win that freedom.
Instead of buying the car of your choice or going touring.Let's learn to make proper money and not complain.Even so, housework must be difficult for them, so they employ a variety of shortening time appliances and housekeeping services to make it as easy as possible.
It costs money, but one of my motivations is to be able to pay for it.That's how big the "passion" for "freedom" is.(Heat again, huh?)
After all.If he wants to be free as a husband, he must overwhelmingly exceed the level of his wife's demands.I think.
I see...my husband is working hard to win his freedom, and I, as a wife, am really sorry for taking advantage of his efforts and letting him get comfortable.If it's that hard, why don't you ask a housekeeper to do it for you?My husband said to me, "I'm not sure I'm going to be able to do this.
For the husband, "I didn't tell her to do her chores properly, but she's always getting frustrated because she's so full of herself, and I don't know what to do.I need you to be in a better mood.I guess he also had the thought, "I'm not sure what I'm going to do.
Also, her husband was
Japanese people tend to feel somewhat guilty about "earning money," but there is nothing wrong with that. First of all, I think it is better to remove this psychological barrier and think about it head-on.
I have always been a "labourI've been conscious of the fact that I'm not aiming for the "XX million yen a year line," as the world calls it.Set a goal of how much money you need to make to achieve what you want to do at that moment, and then achieve it.We have been doing this repeatedly, and now we are here.
Like a company, there is no way a company that is not making money can provide good service to its customers. After all, since the company is profitable, it can invest in creating better services and make its customers even more happy.
I think it's the same for families.Earning money is important because only when you earn well, have freedom, and are satisfied with yourself can you make those around you happy.I think.
I'm still far from my ideal. I'm still far from my ideal.
He said.
...I also hope that one day my husband will be able to say to me, "Thank you for everything.I want to be able to present a Grand Seiko to someone with a big smile while saying, "I'll do my best!
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Hello. - Hello.
It is actually quite difficult not to feel guilty about "earning" money, isn't it?
Since I am in the business of helping others in need, I feel a strong sense of guilt about "earning money.
In my family, things outside the home building are basically free.
I'll make my wife a "Panamera" or can I buy a "996"?
I think we should have a 4WD model because we will be driving on snowy roads, right?
What color do you want inside and out? You want a guy who can drive too, right?
I'm not going to ask you if you want to know.
My car is a Cayenne, it's your car, you can do whatever you want with it."
The end result is that the
My wife and I would like to have a discussion about
"No way, you'll get a piece-of-shit car that matches your earnings, your looks, and your abilities."
I'd like to have him say something like, "What's the matter with you?
I'm not sure if the "base" is sufficient, or if the "S" is the only way to accelerate, or if the "4" is the only way to winterize the car.
White is too much like everyone else's, so green would be better here, or white interiors get dirty and tan."
I'd like to have a discussion about the "yes" and "no" discussions....
It ends with, "Don't ask me so many questions, just do what you want.
She's an overly cool wife, but I'm a bit of a spoiled brat and sometimes I miss her a little.
Mr. Buppa.
I laughed so hard while reading it.
His wife is too manly, too cool (laughs).
So "a person who is like a split bamboo" is exactly the kind of person your wife is.
Certainly, it is fun when a couple can think about buying a car together.
But I could tell that the wife trusts Buppa, and I thought that was the best thing that could have happened to the couple in their relationship.
Panamera or 996...I'm so worried!
The way it looks now, I might as well buy the 996 (LOL!)!
Hello.
It is important to "earn" money.
I had a great "realization" after reading this. Thank you very much.
As a self-employed person, I was losing motivation to work in Corona, and all I could think about was keeping my expenses down rather than moving poorly.
I feel that the feeling of "earning money" had become rare.
As a husband, earn first! I will regain my family's trust and comfort and buy two Porsches. (For me and my wife)
My wife's favorite is 964. It's hard to find a car in good condition, but if your luck goes up, it will come around. First of all, I have to earn money. And don't forget to get a gift for my daughter.
The more specific the reward after an accomplishment, the more motivating it is.
When I get the results, I will take a picture of my car in Ashiari and apply to post it.
TARO.
Hello. Thank you for your comment.
I wrote this in a big way, but...
It's a really tough time in Corona right now...
We feel that it is not easy to make sales while the economy is not turning.
But it is precisely in times like these that we must keep our minds forward and work hard...
I was also reminded to keep up the good work by your comment.
We'd love to see your car listed!
I hope to see you in Ashiu as well.
Thank you for your continued support.
Hello.
This is a topic often seen in the car category of Yahoo Chiebukuro.
I think Mina's husband has given you a targeted answer.
(This is not an answer to your question as a solution in the meantime.)
I mentioned this topic to my wife.
'Why don't you just buy two cars, a sports car and a family car?
If you only buy sports cars, what about your family?" I asked.
I've been driving a two-seater mid-ship car (MR2) since I was a bachelor.
I switched to a sedan when my family grew.
I wanted to go to different places with my family.
In the end, how much does the husband care about his family? I think it depends on how much he cares about his family.
I can't say, "You don't have enough money to buy two cars, so don't sleep on it!" My wife can't say
What should I do?" and the story would be one that cannot offer a good solution? I think so.
To begin with, the basic premise is that I want a husband who wants a sports car.
I don't have the financial resources or daily compassion to convince my wife.
Your final summary speaks volumes about a good marriage.
Dusty.
Mr. Paul.
Thank you!
I guess freedom and responsibility go hand in hand.
Paul, I thought that you and your wife must have a wonderful relationship.
He wanted to be able to give Pawn a Grand Seiko.
I had forgotten that I had written it (laughs).
I will devote myself to buying one for my husband in the future so that I can give it to him as a gift ^^.