Husband

."To be successful in business, it's all about networking.It is often said in the business world that "business cards are the best way to get in touch with people. When I first started my business, I used to show up at various social gatherings with a business card case filled to the brim with my own business cards and enthusiastically exchange business cards.

My husband, on the other hand, is not a big fan of social gatherings and ________ meetings, so he does not go to any such events. Even last year, he had zero work-related evening dinners.(I barely go to internal welcome parties and events)

Thanks to my husband's trusted advisors and friends, I feel safe around him, but he comes home straight every day, and as expected, he is very "nervous.I don't know, networking, going to management meetings?I asked him one time.

And my husband said one word.

I'm not going (-_-)

He replied.

I asked him, "No, but you do have a position, and don't you have a lot of socializing to do?" I asked.

I'm "the one".Dining for business associatesI'm not good at it, and I don't like it, so I don't do it at all. I don't like it, so I don't do it at all. I think people who like it should do it, but I don't like it.
When I first started my business, I used to join management associations and go to social gatherings, but that was really only for a short time.
I'm the kind of person who always question common sense. I'm a person who questions common sense to begin with.When you start a business, you have to network and sell your face.You say "but is it really so? First of all, let's doubt and think about it.
thenYou don't have to do that to get the job.So I stopped going to those places. And in fact, I got the job.

And.

I see...I'm all over the place in terms of common sense, but my husband really doesn't have that kind of thing.

But...For not socializing, I have a group of trusted professionals by my side.I guess so. Was that a deliberate attempt to create that condition?" I asked.

No, I didn't mean to....
But before, he said, "(light-heartedly)...Let's exchange information!I tried not to meet with people who said, "I don't know what you're talking about. Most of the time, people who say that don't have very good information.
I have less information, or it's very old, and on the other hand, I have more information, or it's newer, or I have more information.I'm sorry we only provided the information and that's it.There were many times when
So I guess I've been trying to avoid meeting people who say, "Let's exchange information. Also, I've been trying to avoid meeting people who say, "Let's exchange information.（I know (the famous) Mr. XXX.Some people boast that they are "theFormerly with Company 00.And you've been avoiding people who appeal to you.
Oh, and to meet the best and brightest."birds of a feather flock togetherI guess you have to follow the "Law of "honestly. We should try to get as close as possible to those who are more successful and active than we are by imitating them and adopting their way of thinking.
Then, before I knew it, I started meeting only with people who were really good and on the front lines, and I had a few trusted generals by my side, and I was able to go around with them.

And. My husband likes to talk about the Three Kingdoms and the Warring States period, so he often uses the expression "warlord" (laughs).

I said, "Indeed, Mr. XX looks like Zhao Yun and Mr. XX looks like Guan Yu."

You're right.
Well, I only have 24 hours a day to myself, and I can't just interact with anyone. It's a little difficult to say, but I think I'm a "good" person.Associate with someone who has the phase of a hero.I think it is important to be aware of this.
What can I say...I think it is better to have one general who is worth 100,000 troops than to have 100,000 troops. Well, in order to do that, I have to keep improving and studying myself in the first place.

This was the case.

I'm sure... if you're watching from the side, if something happens, the warlord will introduce you to the right information or the right people, and you'll be able to get the right information or the right people.There is an environment where you can take shortcuts to achieve your goals.I think that's important. That's important." I said.

Ever since I was a little girl, I've been aStudy three times harder than others, work three times harder than others.I hated it when people said, "You're not as good as the rest of us. I think it's great to do three times as much as others and achieve three times as much as others, but I think it's a "middle" level of achievement.
It is only natural that if you do three times the amount of work, you will get three times the results. Also, if you just do the same amount of work, it is difficult to create innovations and improvements.
I'm not, and I don't think people's "Triple the results with 1/3 the effort.I would like to reach that point. To do so, we need to use our brains and ingenuity to find new ways of doing things, which is hard work, but I think it is more fun and worthwhile.
Well, in short, I am a weirdo.

And.

I see... I am the type of person who immediately thinks, "I have to work three times harder than others...", and because I have a strange physical and mental strength, I can do it quite well, and as a result, I end up pushing myself too hard and destroying my health (laughs).

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That said, my husband does go out to dinner with his car friends and go touring with them.

."You say you don't interact with people, but you still go to those things.When I hear the word

As for cars, it's not my job, it's my hobby, and I go because I want to go. I just don't like the idea of going out to dinner or golfing just for the sake of socializing in a work-related environment.
Well, I'm not good at touring with a large number of people, so I like to keep the number of cars to a few or so so that I don't get separated from the group (laughs).

He said.

I am not a big fan of social interaction, and I prefer to talk one-on-one with my husband rather than gather in large groups to have a lively discussion.

However, we are both used to public speaking to some extent, and we are perfectly comfortable speaking in the clubhouse, for example.(in Japanese history)Every Saturday from 10:00 p.m. to 10:00 p.m., we talk with a couple of people in a relaxed atmosphere.)They won't think of you as someone who "doesn't like to interact with people."Often.

When you think about it, what a weird couple (laughs).

Well, I hope we can continue to enjoy our car life and life together in our own way, as a couple of very different but similar types of people.