Car geeks are not popular...?

I'm looking at the Internet and Twitter.Car geeks aren't popular, and they can't get girlfriends."I have seen posts such as the following. Are car geeks really unattractive?

I thought about it for a while... but still.

I don't think car geeks are popular.（I mean, who the hell do you think you are?)

I know that I am not a master of love, nor am I a beloved girl with a super beauty and personality like Haruka Ayase, so I am not qualified to talk about this subject, but... I would like to write about my views from a woman's perspective.

The reason people say "car geeks aren't popular."I always put the car first, no matter how far I go."I think it is. This "car-first" feeling must be difficult to be accepted by women in the world.

Take my husband, for example.(Sorry to use you as an example in a situation where you're not popular or something)...

I was once driving an SLK350. I parked the car in the parking lot of my husband's parents' house, and as I opened the door from the passenger seat to get out, the seat position of the SLK's seat was lower than I had expected, and I could not get my abdominal muscles to work properly, and I lost my balance while holding the door handle.

'If I don't do this, I'll slam the door into the wall beside me!'I quickly pulled my hand away from the door, and with nowhere for my hand to go, I hit the concrete ground with such force that I felt a pain in my palm. I couldn't help but thinkOw!When I frowned at him, my husband quickly said, "I'm sorry, but I don't know what you're talking about.

You okay? ! The door!

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...Explosion.

I was there at that time.The epitome of what married life will be like in the future."I thought I saw a (laughter).

What if we look at it differently?

In general, women areI like men who are attentive to women, who are good at pleasing them, and who are cool on the outside."I think it's a good idea.(Or vice versa.)When you are with someone and you start to see a lot of behaviors that make you feel, "Is the car more important than me? When you are together with a person, you may think, "I don't think I can do this with this person.

thereforeMen who are car nerds are not popular with women."I wonder if they will say that....

But just as car geek men are single-minded about cars, they are also single-minded about women.(There are a lot of people who are...)I think.

Looking around myself, I see many car geek men who take good care of their girlfriends and wives.(Some people just aren't the dexterous type and don't seem to be able to express those feelings well)

andMany people are successful at their jobs and have risen in the ranks because of their nerdy talents.I feel that this is the case. Also, I think that even if people are young now, they are motivated to buy and maintain a car to work hard and be appreciated... and if you focus on that part of their lives, you can see that they are not only young, but they are also very motivated to work hard... and that's what I think.

Work hard, get ahead, and love women with all your heart.

What a crazy wonderful man!

'No, no, no, you say that, but where are the women who will properly look at what's inside of it and think it's wonderful!'You might say, "I'm not sure how to be popular with women," but I feel that "being popular with women" and "meeting the right woman for me" are two different things.

I think it is more important to be able to be natural, to be able to do what you want to do, and to meet a woman who says it is okay to do so, than to be popular.

And I wonder if I think this way because I'm getting a bit old for it. w

Women who tolerate car geeks

I would like to say here from the women's side."It's not what's on the outside that counts, but what's on the inside." "It's not what's common sense or what people think of you, but what you feel in your skin and what you value."That some people judge men. The absolute number may be small, but they are definitely there, and I am surrounded by quite a few.

But I can tell you one thing.

Such a woman is definitely "a little strange".

I think it's a little bit strange. She may not look much different from a normal woman, but when you talk to her, she seems out of the ordinary, or out of the ordinary...a little strange....(In a good way)I often feel that this is not the case.

I don't care if my boyfriend or husband likes cars. On the contrary, I have things I want to do, too, so let's do what we both like and have fun."

I guess it's like. When I write it like this.She's a very understanding woman, and I don't care if she's weird or not, she's great."You may think that this is a good idea, but here is a caveat.

Don't expect these women to do what the average woman in the world would do for you (bomb).

For example, when I asked her to go on a date with me, she would get up early in the morning and make me a homemade lunch box or sandwich, or when I was having a hard time at work, she would kindly listen to me and say, "I know, it's hard... I understand...

That's not what we're looking for.(Or rather, I am.)

But conversely, it is precisely because they are unusual that they accept unusual car geeks and let them be free.

When you meet them, hold on tight!

Now, let's get to the important stuff.Where can you find a woman like that?"I'm talking about... where is he, indeed, I don't know if you're asking me that.(Hey! )But I'm sure that

I don't come to parties or anything.
Not even registered with a marriage counselor.

I think. Then you won't be able to meet more and more... (-_-)

But, and I know this is just a feeling, but encounters are a match, and people who attract each other attract each other, so you don't have to force yourself to look outside of theI think that such women may be closer to me than I thought.

What matters is the woman in front of you.That's it!"If you feel something like, "This is it! It's just like when you find a car you want and you say, "This is it! When you find a car that you want, you do whatever it takes to get it (laughs).

I am no longer sure who I am talking to and what I am talking about, so I will leave it at that for now.