This is a post by Nob, who I often see on X. He always has interesting posts, so I can't help but take a look at them.

A man who loves cars is considered a nuisance by married women.

But he says a simple question can tell if he will be a good husband in the future.

Ask him what kind of car he wants when he has a child! If he can't answer immediately that he wants a minivan, he's a bum!

I heard that it is.
Yesterday I saw someone talking with his nostrils wide open again. pic.twitter.com/gHF8sIn9W2

- Nob (@Nob57165321) July 5, 2024

A man who loves cars is considered a nuisance by women in marriage. But he says a simple question can tell if he will be a good husband in the future. 'Ask him what kind of car he wants when he has a child! A man who can't immediately answer "a minivan" there is a confirmed bum!I heard that he is a 'I'm a good person. Yesterday I saw someone talking with his nostrils wide open again.

And.

I see this controversy all the time, and I am sure it is a subject that will never be settled.

most likely (e.g. 90 percent)Minivan = family oriented, he thinks about his family properly, he spends money on his hobbies and never puts any money into the house, he would be a proper husband and father."So, to put it another way.People who buy a lot of sports cars for their own pleasure and do whatever they want should not marry someone like that because they don't care about their family."I guess that's what it means.

Well, maybe the father of the woman I'm talking about at the beginning of this article is the latter kind of person, and he says, "I don't care about my family, my mom went through a lot, and I'm not going to marry someone like that.I don't think it is something for outsiders to complain about, since people may have a "background" and people have their own values.

And the man who was asked,If you really, truly, from the bottom of your heart, want a minivan and are very happy with it.I think that's a very good thing.

But I feel a great deal of discomfort every time I see these controversies.

This is because conversations are based on the assumption that riding the rails of what the world's common sense says "should be done" is the correct answer.

If you do the same things as those around you, you are somewhat at ease.
As long as I don't go off the rails, I'm sure I'll be fine.

is at the root of the project,In the first place, and for what purpose?"It appears to me that the thought process has stopped.

Is it really the best solution?

Of course, I too am bound by common sense in many ways.

."I really want to do this, but I can't because I have no choice.I'm not in a position to say "I'm not a good person," and I'm not in a position to say that to others. But at the very least, I can say that "What is that for?I make a conscious effort to ask myself the question, "What is the best way to make a difference in the world?

BecauseThe important thing is to "fulfill the objective," because the "means" are infinite.

I usually try to think as much as possible about whether or not I am losing sight of the essence of what I am doing by focusing only on the "means" to an end.

And even if the means,Even if it is different from the common sense of the world, even if it is off the rails, if I think it is good for me, I will walk proudly on that path.

I like that way of life, so I consciously ask myself questions. (And I am a little dark at heart, preferring to ask myself questions rather than to interact with others.)

So, as my older children enter elementary school, I often feel thatSend your child to cram school after the third grade.About the rail called "rail".

I am not saying that going to a private school is a bad idea.

If you are satisfied with it, discuss it with the couple and the children, and it is the best solution, then that is totally fine. If a child likes to study, has a goal, and is doing so for the sake of that goal, then I think it is fine for that child to study hard. However,

Because people around me are going there.
Somehow, I feel safer if I send them to cram school.
If you take the test now, you can go to college on the escalator.
If you go to a good school, you can go to a good college, and your future will surely be secure.

I feel like there are a lot of reasons why...and I always wonder if that is really true.

With the rapid evolution of AI and the rapid replacement of human jobs by AI, I wondered if going to cram school now was really the best solution. I wondered if going to cram school now is really the best solution. (If it is the optimal solution, then so be it.)

Off topic, but the same thing about the minivan at the beginning of this article makes me wonder if that is really the best solution.

I am sure that person also wants to live a happy life.

If that's the case, I think you should think through "what happiness means to you in the first place" more, and if you think about that, you'll be able to findIs marriage really the best way to live a happy life?The answer to the question, "What is the best way to get the most out of this project?

If you are married because of your parents' expectations, marriage and childbirth around you, or impatience, you don't have to get married.

But if you think marriage will make you happy, the question you should ask your partner to be sure is,

'TheAsk him what kind of car he wants when he has a child! A man who can't immediately answer "a minivan" there is a confirmed bum!I thought, "That's not such a cheap question, 'What is it that you want to do?

More and more essential,I wonder, "Is this person prepared to protect his family?" or "How serious is he about his life?" or "Is he a man of his word?"And I thought, "I have to look at that.

I kind of think about that.

Well, I'm the kind of person who thinks like this, so I've heard from people who have talked about it on X this time.Wow, this guy is a pain in the ass.I'm sure they'll say, "Oh, no!" and they won't even take you seriously at all (laughs).

You have two cars, that's fine!

I, on the other hand, would say, "I think it's cool to see a man who sticks to what he thinks is right, no matter what the world says about him, no matter whether he's a scumbag or not.(Of course, you can't go through with it without causing a lot of trouble for others.)

What kind of car do you want when you have kids?"

When they said,

I love cars, so I'm going to add more! That's why I'm working hard to earn money! If you don't understand that, then don't get married!"I think it's fine to answer, "I'm not interested in you. I think there are a certain number of women (though probably not many) who think such men are "interesting!

Whatever it is, you only live once, so you should do as you see fit.

Doing what you want means going off the rails of the world, and it may take courage and determination, but I am sure that if that way of life and the choices you make become the norm, you will be able to "do it your way.birds of a feather flock togetherIn the "Mere Old Man," these people came together,

I didn't care what people thought,

I knew there would be more cars.and happily bought a Porsche,
I'll make more money! I'll make more money!"and work hard,

Go to Ashiu Driveway every week,
I went out alone on a touring trip that ran several thousand kilometers at a time,

Every month I would go to a family restaurant and talk cars with my car buddies until closing time,

I don't care if people around me are appalled, I'd rather be "aOdd is the highest compliment I can give.It's just like, "I'm just going to do it,
I guess I'm going to end up like my husband who is going-my-way and all the car friends around him who are comfortable even looking at him that way (laughs).

And I looked at me and I looked at my husband and I said, "Well, I'll be free to do the same! Oh, someday I want to have two cars too!The couple is now a couple of scabby men and women.

However, well, this is still fun for all of us in the family, so please keep up the blog "Porsche has come to our house" like this.
(What kind of an ending is that?)