I read a lot of different car blogs.

I am a Porsche blogger, and I usually seek out and read various car blogs.

Every time I read "I guess everyone really likes cars.I think that the car is a great car, and I have learned a lot from reading the blog of my current favorite car, the Swissport, where people are enjoying their car life by changing parts and customizing the car to their own specifications that are more geared toward driving.

On the other hand, however, "Wanted to buy a new car but couldn't because his wife was against it.It is also quite common to see the contents of the

Each family has its own ideas about what is "right" and "wrong."That's the right answer!I don't think there is such a thing as a "one size fits all" approach, but today I would like to share with you my perspective as a wife who enjoys car life as a couple with a bent.

Nurture your husband's love of cars.

I personally am not opposed to my husband buying a car, but on the contrary, I think that "Nurture my husband's love of cars more and more.I think it would be good to have a "good

."I like something, I want it.The feeling of "I'm a good person" is a tremendous driving force.

Rather than having nothing to do or nothing to want, I'd rather be able to do whatever I want than to be in a situation where I don't want to do or want anything at all."I want it, I want to do it.It's good to have the motivation to "do it", and I hope that I can make that feeling a better motivating force for my husband's work and life....

To be more specific.Let's work hard and earn more for the car we want!I think it would be good to take it in the direction of "the

After considering how much of a down payment would be required to buy that car, and how much the monthly payment would increase.So if you can make more money from it, then buy it!I wonder if I should tell them something like, "I'm sorry, I don't know. (You sound like a big boss, don't you?)

Saving money is important, of course, but it has its limits. With the amount of money they are already saving, it is not surprising that the husbands are "notBuy a new car!If you say, "No, where's the money for that!I'm tempted to say, "I'm not sure I want to do this," but...

."I want a car.It seems to me that if we can nurture the husband's motivation, "I want a car, but I don't want to make an effort to earn more money," while moving him in the direction of making specific efforts to increase his earnings, the overall family income will increase as a result and the likelihood of a better outcome will also increase (on the other hand, if he says he has a car he wants, but he doesn't want to make an effort to earn more money, I will oppose him at all costs w)

What values are important to my wife?

I also think, as I read blogs, etc.I have a car I want to buy.I thought to myself, "If I just tell my wife, 'I'm not going to do it,' she's going to be opposed to it....

."I'm going to have to increase my expenses by this amount specifically, so I'm going to get a second job to pay for it.I wonder if my wife's attitude will change if I show her concrete actions such as "I want to be a good wife," and after consulting with her, if she takes action and the action is accompanied by results.

There is no need to make a large investment, and there are plenty of ways to increase one's earnings without spending a lot of money, so I think there is no harm in taking on this challenge for one's own career advancement.

Also important is the "Know the values and things that are important to my wife."matter.

If my wife had said, "stabilityIf you value "theI wouldn't want to disrupt your current stable lifestyle.I think you'll need a presentation or action that will reassure people that "I'm here to help you," and if you're not, "I'm not."Spend time together as a family (so I don't want my husband to just buy a car he likes and be free on the weekends)If you value the "I" thing, you may want to promise to spend even more time with your family in the future, or look for a sports car that you can drive as a family once you're done.

Even married couples are strangers to each other, having been brought up in different environments and with different ways of thinking. We are notWe've been together long enough to understand each other.I don't think there is such a thing as a "one size fits all" attitude, and I think the attitude of trying to understand each other is still important, even after all these years. (We are still young people, too...)

By the way, my wife and I have been working with each other on the "be freeThey are a couple with a strong commitment to They both believe that "I will not marry if it means I will not be free.When we decided to get married, people around us were of the opinion thatOh, my God! She's getting married!Many people were surprised to hear that (laughs).

So for me, the more freely my husband does it, the more freely I can do it, so I want him to do it more and more freely, and my husband, who has declared that he will not do housework, usually"Then order a housekeeping service," or "buy a shortcut appliance."I am selfishly allowed to say "Thank you"....on the contrary, thank you very much for everything....

Now, as my wife, I'm more of a "I'll make more money because I have the car I want!Although they are an unusual couple, declaring to their husbands, "We are working hard," I hope that they will continue to work freely toward a place where they can lead a richer car life and life as a couple.