Married couples without interference

You may think that we are a "conversational couple" since we often post on this blog that we usually talk about cars as a couple, but that was not the case before. In fact, there was a time when we had no conversation at all and I felt a sense of crisis.

Conversation between the couple has increased dramatically since the car became their shared hobby.

We are not the type of couple that talks to each other about our problems, but rather, we are self-contained and digest things on our own. Also, while it sounds cool to say "we don't interfere with each other,"They don't even ask each other if they're interested.

For example, if my husband says he's going on a 4-day/3-night touring trip alone, I don't know which accommodations he'll be staying at, and the days he doesn't want his food are in his Google Calendar.No need for rice.It just says, "I don't know who I'm going with or what I'm going to eat. When I forgot about it.I went out to dinner with Fatty the other night.I even hear stories like this from my husband.

Conversely, my husband also does not ask where I am going or who I am going with when I go somewhere.

It's pale.

I'm not familiar with every event.

We also forget all anniversaries, so even our wedding anniversary was notified on our Facebook page and it was about the evening of the same day.Did you know it's our anniversary today?" "Oh, I forgot."I would email him and say, "I'm sorry. Christmas, I never gave her a gift or went to a restaurant for dinner, and I never gave my husband a Valentine's DayDo you want some chocolate?"even if asked

I don't want that stuff, it's just a strategy of the chocolate companies!

So much so that I buy and eat reward chocolates for myself (laughs).

As for birthdays, my husband says he doesn't want any gifts.(Even if they say they don't want it, you can still give it to them.)I would rather have a Mac for work than accessories, bags, etc.! We are not a romantic couple.

The change came after the birth of my second daughter.

However, even two people like this have been married for a while.'I've been thinking about this lately,' or 'Things have been unfolding like this at work.'We had conversations with them. Conversations declined dramatically after the birth of my second daughter in 2017.

With two children, I had more things to do, and I was constantly short of sleep. When my husband came home from work, I would take over for him, put the children to bed, and then go straight to sleep.

Even on my days off, I was often tired and slept through the day.Good morning, welcome home, I'm home, good night.The couple didn't talk to each other, so much so that they probably only said something like, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

One day, after a few months of living like this, a number of things came together, and for the first time in a long time, I let out my pent-up feelings to my husband.We haven't had too many spontaneous conversations lately, so let's make time to talk about things."But at the same time, I thought this.

Hey, what should I talk about when I say natural conversation between a couple (-_-)...And.

After so long a period of not talking, I had no idea how to speak naturally or even what kind of trigger to use to start a conversation.

So even though we had those discussions, we didn't have more conversations as a couple, and then last June.

I started this blog by chance, and I started to be more interested in Porsche and cars than before.What is the new Fatty?" or "What is torque? What is chassis?And the conversation naturally grew.(It was a natural conversation, but it became more and more maniacal. (The conversation became more and more natural, or rather maniacal.)

The car was only the start of the conversation, but from there I think we were able to talk about many things.

Thanks to Porsche.

Once again...communication is like blood. Once the blood gets clogged somewhere, it quickly becomes sluggish, and from there it can lead to illness and physical deterioration. That is why it is necessary to keep it flowing and smooth, and that is how we can maintain a healthy body.

The same goes for communication; it is important to create an atmosphere where people can talk naturally through chit-chat and light conversation. With this foundation, people can talk about important things and keep the family in a healthy state.

If we try too hard to face each other or share time, one of us may feel pain or discomfort, but recently I have been reminded of how nice it is to share time with people who have overlapping interests with each other.

Well, Holly, thank you so much, Porsche!

I hope the couple can continue to get along well with each other through their hobby of cars.