The Hobby of Cars

My husband has loved cars since the day we met.It was. At that time I had no interest in cars, but gradually I became interested in cars, started writing a Porsche blog, and now I like cars more than before.

And recently, the couple has come to the point where they talk about cars and go for car test drives together every day.

However, my husband regularly goes on long touring trips and comes home after 3,000 km and still "Not enough running yet.As a novice car enthusiast, I don't understand why he would say, "I'm a car guy," or why he would go out of his way to travel to Tokyo by car instead of taking the bullet train.

But, well, from the public's point of view, I guess they see us as a couple who enjoys a common hobby: cars.

A wife who understands the car hobby

These couples' relationships are described as "Mina is very understanding of her husband's interestsWe often receive messages that say, "We are very happy to be able to help you.

From the time we met until now.I have never denied or restricted my husband from enjoying the hobby of cars.(Should be)I think that readers think that I am understanding when they see these aspects of my work.

Just on this one.I've been free to do what I want since I've been married, and I hope my husband is free to do the same.I'm not sure how I feel about this.The presence of a car motivates my husband and has a positive impact on his work.I have seen that they are doing what they are supposed to do, so I feel that I can let them do it to their heart's content.(For more on this, seeI wrote in a past article(Sometimes)

In addition, I've been thinking lately that I've been particularly interested in the "Be understanding of your husband's hobbies.I've never been conscious of the fact that I'm not a "good" person and that I'm not a "good" person.Be an understanding wife who allows her husband freedom.And that means they never even tried.

Perhaps if you have a strong sense of "making an effort," you will force yourself and unknowingly accumulate stress, explode somewhere, and not be able to continue.

It's not that, it's that we're naturally inclined to understand.They both have a very similar sense of what is "important" or "not important" in life to begin with.I think it is from

We have very different personalities, and my husband is a theorist and I am a sensual person, but I feel that we are very similar at the core, and people around us have told me, "We are both very different.like marries likeIt is often referred to as "the

My sense of self over what others do.

I find it particularly similar to "They don't care much about what others (the world) do and decide things according to their own sense.The trend is toward a "one-size-fits-all" approach.

When we make decisions in our home, we almost never think, "Because everyone else is doing it this way, we'll do it this way, too."Let's do this because we think it's good," or "Let's do this because it's comfortable for us."but often it is a little different from the common sense of the world.

When I write it like this, it sounds like we are people who are pale and don't conform to society... but maybe we actually are, since we both jumped out of organizations and became independent. w

For example, while my husband goes on long touring trips, I often go home to my parents with my daughters, butMy husband can enjoy driving the car by himself, and I can stretch my wings at home, free from housework and childcare, so we are both happy.This way of thinking is normal for us, but according to our parents and others around us, it seems to be "unusual.

In addition, almost all of my eldest daughter's friends are taking lessons in Kumon, piano, cram school, swimming, and dance, and although I have been invited several times by their mothers, I have never been able to get them to take lessons.

."Well...if he wants to do it, he can, but he doesn't seem interested in asking.Time flies as we say, and my eldest daughter has never learned a single lesson, and she still hasn't.

In fact, my friends who are taking lessons already know what they need to learn in the first grade of elementary school and can write beautifully, which I find amazing, but that doesn't make me impatient or say, "Let my child take lessons, too! But that doesn't make me impatient or say, "Let's make my child learn it, too!

Also, regarding my home, I feel like almost everyone around my husband has purchased one, and we've both heard from our parents, "We're not going to be able to afford it.Don't just buy a car, get your own home first!I've been told that we need to buy a new house, but I've always come to the conclusion that "well, we don't really need it right now," so I've been renting for a long time.

And more often than not, I'm more aware of myself than these things, on the contrary.

."How can we make our lives more comfortable?"What studies do we need to do now to take ourselves to the next stage?I'm very interested in things like "I'm a good person," and I always have my antenna up there, so I guess that's why I don't really look at other people's things.

Maybe we're both changing.

It's a long story, but that means that when it comes to the car hobby, too, "We want to value an environment where we are free to do what we want.Because we have a strong sense of "freedom," we are not inclined to restrict each other's freedom. Also, since with freedom comes responsibility, I think we both value the idea that "we have to fulfill our responsibilities as much as we do our freedom," even though we don't say it out loud.

A car life that fits the shape of the couple.

This is how our family happens to live our car life, but I think there are many ways to enjoy car life as a couple without overdoing it.

This is because what is good for the couple will depend a lot on their values and ideas.

Maybe the couple likes to go for a drive together, but the wife is a passenger, or maybe the wife wants to drive a lot, or maybe she enjoys the inns at the destination more than the drive, or maybe the couple wants to drive two cars together... I think it would be nice to find a way to enjoy car life that suits the couple's way of thinking and feeling, that is unique to the couple. It would be nice to find a way to enjoy car life that suits the couple's way of thinking and sensibilities.

And since these things change as children grow up, and I am sure that nothing is absolute, I hope that we too can continue to improve and refine our own car life.