Why don't you become a housewife?

Sometimes people ask around."I don't have to work.Why are you working?"And. Thanks to my family, my husband is doing a great job, and I am able to drive a Panamera because of it, as well as other valuable experiences.

That's why people around me.I wonder why your wife is working.I have two kids, so why not just be a stay-at-home mom?"It seems that sometimes people think that they are the only ones who can do this.

There you go. I think the reason I work in such a situation is because I want to have freedom. Mental, financial, and time freedom. I once read in some personality analysis thatYou're the type of person who wants to build your own castle, where no one complains."And that's exactly what they said! I thought.

Longing for Freedom

I grew up in a pretty strict family, so I've been a child.I want my freedom."I had a strong feeling that I had to live alone. Even after I became a university student, my curfew was 10:00 p.m., and even after I entered the workforce, I often clashed with my parents because they did not allow me to live alone.(I'm glad we now get along so well)

To be free from such experiences

Earn your own money.
To be able to have a calm and logical conversation to convince others.
Show them by your actions and ask them to trust you.

I began to think that it was necessary to

So in my mind, as long as I am dependent on my husband's earnings, I am not free. I have a husband who provides for me, I don't have to go to work every day, I can go to different places in my Panamera, I can go out with my children whenever I want, I can have lunch with my girlfriends. Some may see that as freedom, but even if I had free money to spend, even if I had free time to spend, I would not call that freedom.

What if my husband's company goes bankrupt?
What if my husband is fired from his job?
What if my husband is unable to work?
What if my husband asks for a divorce?
(...no, I don't want to think that...)All things being equal, a billion is one, a trillion is one.There are no absolutes in this world.

If that were to happen, our current lives would crumble in an instant.

You can't have freedom in a life that you leave to someone else.

Freedom is independence.

I believe that true freedom can only be gained by acquiring the ability to earn one's own money.

And when you get down to the earning power...The ability to eat on one's own, even without a company sign, even without someone's backing, even if one is stripped of one's belongings.I think it is. To be so, sometimes you have to be temporarily in a situation where you are not free. Sometimes you have to work hard, improve yourself, improve your quality, and do quantity.

But if we are aware that it is our ticket to freedom and the path we have chosen, we can overcome it. ThereforeI am sure I will continue to work, no matter what my husband's situation is.Id.

And in the future, I will be able to give my husband a Grand Seiko watch or something like that, and if he gets into trouble, I will be able to say, "What? I earn a lot of money, so it doesn't hurt. I think it would be super cool if I could say something like that.

The fantasy is perfect. So all that remains is to work hard and make it a reality.

Okay!