Rear seat monitors, do you want to put them on?

Once, when we were considering the purchase of a Panamera, my husband glanced at me and said.

I asked, "Why don't you put a monitor in the back seat? So the kids can watch TV in the back."

And I was quick to respond with.

I don't want it!

Don't spoil it like that. It's not normal to have monitors in the backseat either."Ultra-comfortable Singapore Airlines seatsIt's not like "I want to see Anpanman, but there are only monitors in the front, and mom and dad want to see the navigation system, so we can't see it right now." Or, "It's hard to see from the back seat, so let's lean over to see it." It is better to have some difficulty in doing so.

Comfort is the norm.It is natural to take for granted that we will be givenNot.Amidst all the inconveniences and glitches.It is better to think with a little wisdom and whatnot.

There is a story I once heard that made me think, "I see.

One summer Saturday afternoon, the morning rain had stopped and it was sunny. On his way home from elementary school, he found a butterfly pupa in the grass.The chrysalis was just on its way to becoming a butterfly, about to break out of its shell.Intrigued, he watched the chrysalis for a while.
However, after 10 or 20 minutes, the pupa did not appear easily.
Perhaps because of the hard shell, he struggled hard, but after an hour he still hadn't emerged. He began to feel more and more sorry for the pupa. Then, from his school bagHe took out a pair of scissors and cut the chrysalis shell so he could get out.
Now you can go outside without suffering," he said gently to the chrysalis.
True to his word, he was able to emerge from the inside with ease. But something was wrong.
It was supposed to be a butterfly, but its wings were shrunken into a mess, and its body was swollen and large.Is it really a butterfly?I was in doubt. Their wings were so small and their bodies so large that they could not even fly.
The chrysalis fell straight to the ground and crawled away. He wanted to save the poor looking pupa.
So I cut the shell off with scissors, but that didn't help the butterfly. It became unable to fly for the rest of its life.Butterflies "struggle" to emerge from their shells so they can fly.It is called. It is necessary to bring the nutrients in the body to the wings to make them grow.
He took that away from me.
The butterfly struggles in its shell, makes its body smaller, spreads its wings wider, and then the butterfly is able to fly for the first time. ・・・・

So that you can live on your own.

I don't know if this is a true story, but I think this is true in parenting and in training subordinates. If you think about the person you're dealing with...It is important to let them develop the ability to overcome it by themselves to the end, even if it is a little inconvenient, inconvenient, or doesn't work out, instead of immediately putting their hands on it.It is. The more you overcome, the more successes you will experience, which will give you confidence in yourself and make you stronger.

Well, I'm in a pampered and enviable enough environment to drive a Panamera at the age of 2 or 3... but I'd rather not spoil it any more than that...

As parents, we would like to watch over them so that, whenever possible, they will grow up to be independent people with sound values and the ability to overcome obstacles on their own.(We're no longer talking about cars, are we?)